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Steppin’ Out: #ROW80 /#12WeekYear MidWeek 8

Hi there, ROWers and friends!

On Sunday, I wrote about the growth after a stumble– when  adversity brings new insights and inspirations born of the stirring-up.

Today, I’m going to talk about some growth that’s been happening beneath the surface of my life, largely unseen, but very important. Because, during Jim’s illness, and in the aftermath of his death, there have indeed been other things happening in my nascent professional life.

I’ll be posting more about these and other developments in the next week or two, in a long-delayed Weekend Coffee Share post, but the cumulative summary here is both exciting and a bit daunting. Jim used to say it would be great if I could make money from my writing. While there have been small amounts here and there, I’ve never before had a real concept of how to get from here to there. While I wish Jim was here to share in it with me, there is a sense of joy and potential that’s helping me to move forward even with the empty place beside me.

Thanks so much for letting me share my feels with you!

What personal developments are you celebrating?

Blue with Overstrike: Goal Completed.

Green:  In Progress.

Black: Still Waiting.

Black with Overstrike: 86ed.

Red: Goal Change

Relationships, Family, and Home:

Doing:

Complete lists of homeschool activities/ update attendance for November homeschool reports and submit. Due Week 11.

  • Progress: 0%.

Facilitate Miah’s driving practice; four times weekly. Weeks 8-12.

  • Local driving. For the first time, he stopped because he was feeling drowsy. 1/4
  • Progress: 25%.

Move bedroom furniture to better accommodate nurse visits; deep clean as I go; ask for help from kids as needed.  Week 1.

Use one-on-one time to touch base with both kids. Weeks 8-12.

  • Touched base with Lise about upcoming plans with her best friend, and with both kids about some home improvement plans.
  • Progress: 100%

Set aside a few minutes five days weekly to arrange facilitation of needs. Weeks 8 -12.

  • Hometending; social opportunities; helped Lise bake cookies; personal enrichment; cooking/provisioning; paid cremation expenses. 3/3 for session.
  • Progress: 100%.

Being:

Focus on at least ten minutes with some combination of family members in common spaces daily. Weeks 812.

  • 3/3 for session.
  • Progress: 100%.

Gather and consider how to make our home a sweeter place. Weeks 8-12.

  • Discussed division of home labor and potential skylights/renovations.
  • Progress: 100%

Professional/Financial:

Doing:

Inventory sauces; get count on what/how many labels needed: Due Week 3.

  • Progress: 90%

Go through checking account and insurance policy info; make list of monthly/quarterly bills and due dates: Due Week 4.

  • Progress: 85%

Pay Jim’s back sales taxes; find out how to dissolve business. Due Week 6.

  • Progress: 35%.

Do (or delegate) our taxes: Due Week 10.

  • Progress: 25%.

Create a base family budget for the kids and I: Due Week 12.

  • More consideration of our budgetary needs.
  • Progress: 55%

Focus on learning via the courses I already have in progress: Weeks 8-12.

  • Progress: 60%.

Work on beta projects I’ve agreed to as opportunity arises. Weeks 812.

  • Highlighted 9, Sc.1 for future comments.
  • Progress: 100%.

Keep in touch with other writers –  reading blogs; commenting; participating in sprints and blog hops as I am able: Weeks 812.

  • Responded to blog comments and visited/commented in return.
  • Progress: 50%.

Being:

Make lists of things we could use help with, as we think of them. Weeks 812.

  • Progress: 50%

Ask both kids for ideas at least weekly. Weeks 812.

  • Talked with both.
  • Progress: 100%

Pair lists with those willing to help at least weekly. Weeks 812.

  • Progress: 0%

Seek out someone(s) with good organizational skills who can coordinate as/when needed. Weeks 8-12.

  • Progress: 0%

When someone offers general assistance, be ready with ideas. Weeks 812.

  • Progress: 100%

Body, Mind, and Soul:

Doing:

Watch Star Trek: Enterprise whenever possible; join in Twitter live chat at #AllStarTrek. Weeks 8-12

  • Sunday/Monday -check.
  • Progress: 100%

Resume taking pictures, beautifying our home, drawing, coloring, singing, and other activities that I enjoy, as opportunities arise. Weeks 8-12.

  • Home and Garden TV; decluttering/organizing/hometending; writing group; photos; singing.
  • Progress: 100%

Experiment with Instant Pot weekly. Weeks 812.

  • Used pot to saute aromatics and simmer pasta and sauce.
  • Progress: 100%.

Keep eyes open for likely recipes. Weeks 812.

  • Progress: 0%

Use Ninja for food prep once weekly. Weeks 7-12.

  • Progress: 0%

Alternate days of restful focus with more active days. Weeks 8-12.

  • Relaxed Sunday and Tuesday bracketing a very active Monday.
  • Progress: 100%.

Listen to my body, mind, and soul, and follow their leads to adjust accordingly.  Weeks 812.

  • Checking in with myself more regularly; reminding myself to put well-being ahead of the to-do lists.
  • Progress: 100%

Being:

Follow a morning routine when possible. Weeks 812.

  • Progress: 0%.

Use quiet moments as they present themselves. Weeks 8-12.

  • This continues to be an area of strength.
  • Progress: 100%.

Make a practice of being present- right here, right now. Weeks 812.

  • Considering ways to embrace presence more fully.
  • Progress: 100%.

Prioritize time and connection with my beloveds over busy-ness. Weeks 812.

  • Yes! It went a long way toward a more centered session.
  • Progress: 100%

ROW80 –

The Writing Challenge That Knows You Have A Life!

ROW Along, or Cheer Us On!

We’re On Facebook, Too!

Yesterday would have been Jim’s 54th birthday , and was the 21st anniversary of the day we met. When I asked Lise what/if we should commemorate the day, she said, “We should go out for dinner and eat dessert first. That was Jim’s motto, so that’s what we did! (Photo shared with permission of Miah and Lise Burton).

Author:

I am myself. I own my life, and live with three other people who own theirs. My intention is to do only those things that bring me joy, and to give myself wholly to those things I do. Writing has been my passion throughout my life, and this will become the home for my writing life...because it brings me great joy!

4 thoughts on “Steppin’ Out: #ROW80 /#12WeekYear MidWeek 8

    1. Yes, there really are. Along with the mountain range of things to do….but I’m making progress there, too, if not as swiftly as I would like to be.

      Got home with the new keyboard and printer an hour or so ago, so this weekend will involve quarterly reports and mailing that package and a letter to Jim’s mother.

  1. Beautiful post! Lots going on. Congrats on the progress and nomination! Keep up the great work and rock on. Also … sending (((hugs))).

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