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Change is Blooming; June 18, 2017

Hi there!

When I last updated on Wednesday, the dramatic breakdown of my car (on an interstate, at about 50 mph, with my teen son beside me) was still fresh, and so was the stress between my spouse and I that boiled over in the aftermath…it seems inevitable that these times bring to the fore those few persistent issues that keep cropping up, because they’ve yet to be resolved…

Sometimes, marriage is a matter of millimeters gained, and meters lost – and then the flip when it seems to go the other way.

The car breakdown came at a far-less-than-ideal time, financially speaking. Or, looked at another way, it came at the perfect time to shake us out of our assumptions, and open our minds to new possibilities and potential.

We’re still in the early stages of figuring things out – but, with a few days’ perspective, we can see the potential for growth and positive change here.

Have you ever had a setback that led to new potential?


  • JuNoWriMo: Write 50,000 words of raw material for blog posts. 28,596/50,000 words. Primary goal just above target.


  • JuNoWriMo: Plot/outline blog posts as needed to complete the drafting goal above. 12 rough post sketches completed ahead of current drafting. Secondary goal ahead of target.


  • Holly Lisle’s How to Revise Your Novel: Complete Lesson 3 (in progress; check beginning point) using “On Any Tuesday Night” as my WIP. Skim Lessons 4 and 5; make decision regarding how much I can reasonably take on, and set an endpoint for this month’s progress. Found my beginning point: Scene 4, p. 10. Organized materials; cleaned workspace for efficiency. Completed Notes for Scenes 47 (p.25/82 in progress). Read about half of Lesson 5; it said not to go further until I’d completed the work to that point. Decision made; I’ll finish Lesson 3, then break until July. Primary goal on target.

Social Media:

  • Blogging: Revise/polish/package relevant blogposts in order to return to a regular blogging schedule. Designate reblogged/repurposed posts or work ahead to cover July’s schedule. Posting has begun, Still not up to par, but closer (see post list above); had an idea for repurposed blogposts for July. Primary goal on target.

  • Continue in Twitter #writingcrew and #AllStarTrek sprints/chats regularly. Dabble in other social media (LinkedIn, Medium, Quora, Wattpad) if/as desired. Both sprints/ chats Wed. Read on Quora, Stretch goal on target.


  • Create a writing business plan using this excellent article by  Angela Ackerman as a guide. Step 2/7 complete. Using this as an opportunity to write a series of blog posts on this process as I move through it. Primary goal on target.

  • Assist my Accomplice with his labeling/branding/platform/marketing (if this is scary for me; it’s completely alien to him). I continued printing labels for two products; received pertinent information from Accomplice to create the next three (I’ll probably start those sometime this weekend. Simmering thoughts for POS marketing and platform creation – those will likely begin later next week. Secondary goal on target.
  • Complete Build Your Marketing Muscles  class; simmer; draft an action plan to apply what I’ve learned, and experiment with early changes/additions to my currently nearly non-existent “marketing plan. Finished up all the course materials I missed during the “live” session. Joined a 7 day video challenge, and got behind due to car; catching up (Day 3/7 recorded; read some course materials). Simmering prior to beginning action plan. Stretch goal.

Tending goals:

It still wasn’t my best week for tending goals; the vehicle situation and its aftermath upset the rhythm, but there was more focus as the week wore on.

  • Hometending: Spend time at least 5x/week in mindful cleaning and/or yardtending; complete all homeschool paperwork and testing; deal with subscriptions and other business that tends to get pushed aside; support other indie writers as I’m able. Mindful cleaning: 5/5 (brief sessions). Ran Twitter sprints for #JuNoWriMo. Canceled Office trial; unneeded. Third quarter reports submitted; standardized tests ordered for both children; Lise’s has arrived, so we’ll begin sometime next week, most likely.

  • Selftending: Spend time with my beloveds, friends, and myself; get at least one hour of physical activity 5x/week, and five hours of strenuous activity weekly (including Baby Steps to 5K); meditate and journal 8x/week. Meditation/journaling 2/8. Hour; 1/5; Strenuous: 45 minutes/5 hours.

  • Lifetending: Continue developing professional goals and connections; reading and audiobook listening, and The Star Trek Chronology Project. Onward w/ #writingcrew, #JuNoWriMo. Completed a newsletter I volunteered to write for JuNoWriMo. Began audiobook: The Upside of Your Dark Side; chapter4/8 in progress.

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I am myself. I own my life, and live with three other people who own theirs. My intention is to do only those things that bring me joy, and to give myself wholly to those things I do. Writing has been my passion throughout my life, and this will become the home for my writing life...because it brings me great joy!

8 thoughts on “Change is Blooming; June 18, 2017

  1. Sorry to hear about the car! That sounds very scary. 😦 Looks like you are doing very well regardless, so awesome!

    I’m in the process of transitioning to working from home, due to the company I work for (16 years!) closing. It hasn’t happened officially yet, but I am told it could happen at any time. I think working from home will be better for my health (fibro+pain issues+transportation) and I’ve been trying to build up my editing business so I can do that. I think this will be good for me, but there is the added worry about not getting enough work, etc. But I see good potential here, and I know in my heart that it’s the best thing for me at this stage of my life. So, yeah, a major setback that may turn into something great. 😀

    1. I hope being home turns out to be better than you can imagine, Erin! My brother had been with a manufacturing company for over 20 years when they moved to another state. He still had children at home and didn’t want to uproot them, so left the company. He ended up with a far better-paying, more rewarding job supplying parts to aircraft mechanics.

      It was a scary moment, and I miss my car, elderly and battered as it was. I was really hoping to have a 300K Subaru, and we were so close! I was able to channel the emotion into forward momentum on things I can improve, though, and I’m grateful. Even more grateful that Jeremiah and I are both alive and well! ❤

      1. I’m so glad you both are fine! And yes, I am hoping that working from home is great, because working outside the home is getting harder and harder for me physically.

    1. “Quite a week”…yeah. I can agree with that assessment! =)

      I have a tendency to channel unsettled feelings into productive work – can you tell? 😉

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